Thursday, May 24, 2007

Yes, still busy. Living situation in sort of limbo, waiting to get into new place, but not ready yet, so bunking with relatives. Obviously, overt Wife Led things are at a minimum. I did give her the book "Around Her Finger" and asked her to read it whenever she gets the chance. I am not pressuring her as to when, want it to be at her timetable. She doesn't quite get the notion that I crave to submit to her......that by her just allowing it to happen, it brings great pleasure to me. She wants to do nice things for me, that is natural and I want it of course. But, the theory that by her leading, even with some selfishness on her part, even without a sense of reciprocation on her part, is still a little foreign to her. But, she is trying and that is a testament of her goodness.

As Emily Addison said in one of her comments, " Your husband craves your authority. Continue to bless him with it, and he will continue to bless you with his submission."

Maybe someday soon, she will have an "Aha, I get it now" moment. But, it is all good, she is wonderful and I really love her!

1 comment:

oldbear said...

Howdy, I wish you well.

I would like to remind you, that most all of the stuff you subbies do for yuor wife in an AHF marriage should be done for her anyhow, even by stud doms like me.

Peace to you, and good luck in yur quest to ahv eher grow in CONFORTABLE control of you and exaltation over you.