Yes, still busy. Living situation in sort of limbo, waiting to get into new place, but not ready yet, so bunking with relatives. Obviously, overt Wife Led things are at a minimum. I did give her the book "Around Her Finger" and asked her to read it whenever she gets the chance. I am not pressuring her as to when, want it to be at her timetable. She doesn't quite get the notion that I crave to submit to her......that by her just allowing it to happen, it brings great pleasure to me. She wants to do nice things for me, that is natural and I want it of course. But, the theory that by her leading, even with some selfishness on her part, even without a sense of reciprocation on her part, is still a little foreign to her. But, she is trying and that is a testament of her goodness.
As Emily Addison said in one of her comments, " Your husband craves your authority. Continue to bless him with it, and he will continue to bless you with his submission."
Maybe someday soon, she will have an "Aha, I get it now" moment. But, it is all good, she is wonderful and I really love her!
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